I have been getting a lot of inquiries into how we are doing in the aftermath of our adoption failure. I have also received heartfelt messages and notes of encouragement, all of which I’ve read and very much appreciated. And hugs. Thank you for all the hugs. I’ll never turn down one of those.
My dear friend Lauren started a GoFundMe to help us try and recover what we lost and be financially prepared for the next match without going further into debt. I am humbled by that gesture.
If you have been following our story and are open to helping us along the financial path to finding our second child, here’s where you can do that.
Huge, heartfelt thanks to you in advance, and to all our family, friends, and not-yet-friends who have already donated.
I am also starting to hear stories from people who’ve experienced a similar loss (typically without the fraud part) or know someone who has.
And like I felt for quite a while (and still do if I let myself), a lot of people are outraged. They want to know why this happened, why more can’t be done, how to prevent it from happening again, and who we can blame.
So I want to address a few of those things. Continue reading